Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Quote

Hello and Happy Wednesday!

This quote is brought to you by the Dalai Lama:

Mischievous people often use religious faith for their own interest and create conflict. We have to look at the real message of all these traditions.

Be sure to check out Abe's post-an excellent read!

See you Saturday!



Saturday, June 26, 2010

Abe Solomon

Hello and Happy Saturday!

First up I wish to thank Ryan for sharing his voice with us. I very much enjoyed reading his interview. Great job Ryan!

This week YMR has a new post! Please welcome Abe Solomon.
Abe is Jewish and I know you're going to enjoy his post as well.

Here Is Abe's Introduction:

Abe Solomon is is an Orthodox Jew from NY who recently moved to Houston.
He is a musician who performs
Jewish wedding music and helps businesses with credit card processing in Houston and across the nation.

My blog sites are http://jewishmuzic.blogspot.com and http://ethicalmerchantservices.blogspot.com
My business website is http://www.prestigemerchantservices.com

1) What religion do you practice?
Judaism


2) Did you convert or were you born into this religion? If you converted, what did you need to do to convert? And what did you practice prior to converting?
Born Jewish - If your mother is Jewish then by Jewish Law so are you

3) Would you consider yourself a moderate, conservative or other.
Conservative

4) In your opinion, what makes you moderate/conservative/other?
Anti-big government, pro private industry

5) In your opinion, what makes someone conservative? What makes someone moderate?
Conservatives believe in free markets, moderates take both liberal and conservative positions

6) What's your heaven/paradise like?
Getting rid of all physical pursuits and living a totally spiritual one

7) In your opinion, does everyone make it into heaven/paradise? If they do not, why?
If they don't follow in the way g-d commanded they will not

8) What makes your religion a good fit for you?
Community, sense of purpose etc.

9) What are your holy days and what do you do to celebrate them?
Too many to mention and I celebrate all of them: Passover, Succos, Rosh Hashanah , Yom Kippur, Hannukah Purim, etc.

10) Do you consider people of other faiths to be your friends?
Yes

11) Would you ever join people of another faith to celebrate one of their holy days? Please explain why?
No it's against my religion

12) What are your thoughts on the burka, and Shariah Law?
I understand the concept but believe it's extreme.

13) What are your thoughts on women not being allowed to become priests?
I don't have a problem with it since it's not my religion. Women should be priests too.

14) Does your place of worship segregate? If yes, how does this make you feel?
My synagogue has seperate seating for men and women. I think it's a good idea.

15) How much does your religion affect your daily life and how much thought do you give it when making a decision? Does it affect in any way your decision on abortion, gay marriage, etc?
It affects many decisions especially with food as I eat only kosher.

16) How would you react/feel if your child wished to marry outside your religion?
Very upset

17) In your opinion, if someone is not of your faith, will they go to hell?
No

18) Who do you think is not a practicing ----- in your religion and why? ie who in the public domain claims to speak for your religion? Do you agree with them or not?
Anyone who is not orthodox i.e. reform, conservative, reconstructionist are not true practicing Jews as they may not be keeping the important Jewish laws i.e. keeping the sabbath or eating strictly kosher.

19) Have you ever been the target of a hate crime? Please explain.
I have had racial slurs thrown at me in my lifetime. I wear a head
covering that makes me known as a Jew.


20) Do you ever feel like your religion devalues you?
No

21) Does your religion give you peace of mind?
Yes at times

22) Do you believe in reincarnation? Why or why not?
Yes it's part of our belief.


Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Nelson Mandela Quote

Happy Wednesday!

This Wednesday's quote is brought to you by Nelson Mandela:

The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.

If you've got a favourite quote or even a question for our polls, send them along to ymr@bell.net.

Tune in Saturday, YMR will have a new post!

Til then, take care!

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Thank You!

I want to thank YMR's 2nd set of participants!

A Big Thank You goes to Kris, Deb, Cora, Inannasstar, Casey, Ange and Ryan!


Thank you all for sharing your unique voices with us. I thoroughly enjoyed reading and publishing each of your posts. All of you brought something different and interesting and I am thankful to each of you for sharing your journey with us. For without you, there would be no YMR!


Thanks for taking the chance on a newb blogger!!


Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Mother Teresa Quote and Open Polls

It's that time again!

Wednesday's quote is brought to you by Mother Teresa:

“The biggest disease today is not leprosy or tuberculosis but rather the feeling of being unwanted, uncared for and deserted by everybody”

Also, wanted to let everyone know that all previous polls have been reopened until July 1st,
in case some didn't get the chance the first time or are just finding the blog now.

Thanks All!

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Ryan

Hello and Happy Saturday Everyone!

First up I wish to thank Ange for sharing her perspective with us. I found her post both informative and interesting. Thank you Ange!

Secondly we have a new post, so please welcome Ryan.
Ryan was raised in the Jewish faith but is now Atheist. I know you will enjoy his interview, another excellent read!

Here Is Ryan's Introduction:

My name is Ryan. As an Orthodox Jew, I was raised as one of the “Chosen People.” A few years ago, I left that world and I’m now a run-of-the-mill “unchosen” person. Read more about my journey at
offthed.blogspot.com.

1) What religion do you practice?
I am an atheist. I don’t think it qualifies as a religion, but I like to think of it as a religion. I’m not non-religious because I’m lazy or indifferent, but because I believe in non-religion.

2) Did you convert or were you born into this religion? If you converted, what did you need to do to convert? And what did you practice prior to converting?
You could say I’m born-again. I was raised in an Orthodox Jewish family, but from the youngest age I had doubts about what I was being taught. So many things just sounded incredibly absurd, and I wondered how we could be so sure we were right while the rest of the world was absolutely wrong. Their gods didn’t help, but ours did? What are the odds? My parents were born non-Orthodox, and I was raised with a great respect for science and the major accomplishments of science. I was also instilled with a healthy reverence for doubt and following the evidence wherever it would lead. I remember my father telling me that we were in a world that was spinning at a dizzying rate, when I had thought the earth stood still. Like all scientists, I was taught to disregard all hypotheses that turned out to be wrong. I was raised to respect truth above all else, and I sometimes enjoyed religious discussions, especially when I believed they would bring me closer to the truth. I spent many hours poring over a religious book titled “Strive for Truth!” until I got to the part where the author defines truth as whatever his religion says it is.

3) Would you consider yourself a moderate, conservative or other.
Devout? I had doubts for a long time, but it wasn’t until my early twenties that I had enough information to safely dismiss the claims of my religion. I had grown up in a house that had no TV, movies, Internet etc., and I was very sheltered. The outside world was something to be feared. Even the library was off-limits. I had little access to resources that might question my religion or very strict way of life, and that may have contributed to my leaving as late as I did. When I was in my early twenties, I stumbled across websites and books that openly challenged some of the fundamentals of my faith (things like the historicity of the Bible, especially Sinai, as well as the creation story). The little faith I had dissolved, and I no longer had an excuse to believe in religion. In a matter of months, I moved out of my parents' home, and began my life free of religion. It’s been a few years since this happened, and I have no regrets about my decision. About a year ago, I discovered Richard Dawkins' books and I was captivated by his ideas. His passionate zest for truth, as well as his awe of the world, his respect for nature and his compassion really captured my imagination. He got me to label myself an atheist, as I realized that to be an atheist one need not lose their awe of nature nor “deny” God 100%. I don’t know that there is no God. I just don’t think that there is one, and there are much more important things for human beings to do than discuss God.

4) In your opinion, what makes someone conservative? What makes someone moderate?
There are lots of atheists who don’t believe in getting in the hair of religious people and making them uncomfortable. Although I don’t quite understand why. If it’s okay for religion to proselytize, why shouldn’t atheists? That's not to say people should necessarily be treated with disrespect; but why should ideas be immune to criticism? Why should religious ideas get any more respect than atheist ones—in other words, no respect at all?!

5) What's your heaven/paradise like?
I don’t believe in heaven, although I think it’s a great idea. It would be wonderful if there was a heaven, or if there was a kind, benevolent God looking after us, but I think both concepts are silly. They also become turn sinister when you contemplate the less-publicized flip side of the bargain and that is hell and a nasty or at the very least demanding God-figure. I think they often go together like bagels and lox. If I could do away with one and keep the other, I would. But since they’re almost inseparable, I’d rather do away with the whole kit and caboodle.

6) In your opinion, does everyone make it into heaven/paradise? If they do not, why?
I don’t believe in the supernatural, though I think heaven is a nice concept. I sometimes think we’re all correct. I’m right when I think there is no heaven (or hell) and my father is right when he thinks that his way of life will get him into heaven, even though the two concepts are contradictory. Although as CNN likes to say, the truth doesn’t take sides! This reminds me of another problem I have with religion: if God was really a nice guy, wouldn’t we all make it to Heaven? (Assuming we all were of decent moral caliber.) God's our friend! Conversely, if he’s more of a prick and sends us off to hell if we don't obey him (or his self-appointed spokespeople), then a) do we really want to worship such a despot? b) how do I know I’ll get into heaven even if I do everything I'm told? Perhaps God is partial to another religion, and I’m up the creek in spite of all the prayer and selfless worship in the world! Consequently, I see religion as one big pile of irrelevance: if God is kind, we can safely ignore him. If he’s not, we’re pretty much screwed regardless.

7) What makes your religion a good fit for you?
I think it’s great because anyone can join. There are almost zero requirements. Talk about accepting! One merely needs to be brave enough to call themselves an atheist and that’s about it. You can be a weak or strong atheist, with weak atheist being uncertain about the existence of God—in other words, agnostic. What other religion allows for so much uniqueness?

8) Do you consider people of other faiths to be your friends?
I have no problem with people of other faiths. I generally don’t disclose that I’m an atheist, though I like to think my friends wouldn’t mind if they knew. I don’t consider religion to be the only significant aspect a person and if I like them enough in other areas, religion may not be a determining factor in whether we become companions.

9) Would you ever join people of another faith to celebrate one of their holy days? Please explain why?
Certainly. I’m all for special occasions and celebrations and as long as religion isn’t front and center, I’m happy to celebrate with friends.

10) What are your thoughts on the burka, and Shariah Law?
I find this to be a rather thorny issue. I think Sharia law is absolutely despicable, and it reminds me of the great chasm between modern perceptions of morality and more traditional, religious views of morality. There are major differences between the two, and it is important that we do not lose sight of that. As far as burkas are concerned, I think it’s important that people should be free to dress as they please, and that women that do or do not want to wear it should be free to choose accordingly. Unfortunately, religious leaders cannot generally be relied upon to enforce freedom, and it’s hard to know whether or not a given woman is free to not wear it. Though if freedom was not an issue, I'd have no issue with it.

11) What are your thoughts on women not being allowed to become priests?
I think women would do a far better job than men. One of the many problems with religion traditionally has been its offensive treatment of women.

12) How much does your religion affect your daily life and how much thought do you give it when making a decision? Does it affect in any way your decision on abortion, gay marriage, etc?
It doesn’t affect me much, although I’m constantly aware of my godless worldview. It especially rears its head when news about political issues such as stem cell research comes up and the debate over morals and values is revived. Humanists like me believe in morality for one reason, while theists often have an entirely different concept of morality, based on absolutes, dusty books, and sometimes disgraceful mythology. I find dialogue next to impossible in this realm.

13) How would you react/feel if your child wished to marry outside your religion?
I would be fine. If she is happy with her decision, why wouldn’t I?

14) In your opinion, if someone is not of your faith, will they go to hell?
That’s one of the great things about my religion (though it’s not really a religion): no heaven and hell! No carrot and stick, nothing supernatural whatsoever. Nothing that’s not based in this world alone. And I think we’ve all seen really good and bad instances in this world alone to feel the consequences of our moral and immoral actions in this world. I know I used to feel immense amounts of guilt just looking into the mirror as a theist, knowing that I was living a lie for the most part; pretending to believe in the Jewish God when I really did not. Structuring my entire life around a religion I did not think was worthwhile or true in the slightest. I don’t think I miss much of it. I have enough faith in the human mind to believe in reward and punishment without an afterlife; I know that if I do something horrendous, I will live with the guilt for the rest of my life, whereas if I do something wonderful, I am graced with the memory for the rest of my life.

15) Who do you think is not a practising ----- in your religion and why? ie who in the public domain claims to speak for your religion? Do you agree with them or not?
I think many atheists stay in the closet and don’t challenge religion as much as they should either from a misguided sense of respect or because they aren’t comfortable or proud enough of their own beliefs. I think it’s important that free speech should be respected in the field of religious belief. Those who are unwilling to tolerate differing points of view should be marginalized as bigots. No one should feel afraid to share their opinion. Respect is a two-way street, and it should be accorded to people, not ideas.

16) Have you ever been the target of a hate crime? Please explain.
I have received a lot of anger and criticism from theists online for not believing in God. What hurt the most was when they attacked my morals and character by saying “you don’t believe in God; you’re automatically a bad person!” Such offensive, desperate people those were. I've also found the angrier their tone, the less convinced they were of their own opinion.

17) Do you ever feel like your religion devalues you?
No. I find religion devalues people by telling them they’re mere pawns in the hand of a master planner. I find the opportunity to be masters of our own destiny exhilarating and empowering.

18) Does your religion give you peace of mind?
In a strange way, yes. I don't believe in any simple answers to complex questions. It would be nice if there were shortcuts to knowledge, but I'm content knowing that those answers are unsatisfactory and seriously lacking. It would be nice to delegate responsibility to a Higher Power, but I'm mature enough to take responsibility for my own life, believe it or not. My school principal once told me, "nothing in life comes easy" and I don't think that changes whether or not a God exists. Our Sages taught, "the day is short and there's lots to be done." I embrace the impossibility of the task.



Saturday, June 5, 2010

Upcoming Posts!

Hello and Happy Saturday!

I wanted to share with you what's coming up over the next few months:
Here's a quick run down!

Next Saturday, we'll be hearing from Ryan who was raised in the Jewish faith but is now Atheist.
on June 26th- we'll hear from Abe Solomon who is Jewish,
on July 10th- we'll hear from Infidel753 who is Atheist,
on July 24th-we'll hear from James Randi aka The Amazing Randi, who is Atheist,
on Aug. 7th-we'll hear from ALC who is Atheist,
0n Aug. 21st-we'll hear from Carlos Scienza who was raised Jehovah's Witness but is now Atheist,
on Sept. 4th-we'll hear from Muslimah who is a Muslim Convert,
on Sept. 18th-we'll hear from Tirzah Roxie who is Catholic,
on Oct. 2nd-we'll hear from Jason who is an Objectivist,
on Oct. 16th-we'll hear from Don Emmerich who is Christian,
on Oct. 30th-we'll hear from Kola Boof who is a Womanist,
and on Nov. 13th-we'll hear from Sarita who is a Pagan

Wow, some very interesting posts you're not going to want to miss!
We always need more participants, so if you're interested please email us @ ymr@bell.net.

See you next week!

Friday, June 4, 2010

The Versatile Blogger Award


Thank You Inannasstar for this wonderful award!
Now, who to send it along to.....there are so many great blogs out there!

The rules for " The Versatile Blogger" award are:
1. Thank the person who gave you this award.
2. Share 7 things about yourself.
3. Pass the award along to 15 bloggers who you have recently discovered and who you think are fantastic!
4. Contact the bloggers you've picked and let them know about the award.
( Rules are flexible, in case you're not good with rules!)


7 things about me, hmm, let's see:
*I like coffee!
*I have a rabbit named Hazel, named after my Grandmother, not Watership Down!
*Wish "I'm a Celebrity, Get Me Outa Here" would come back on tv
*I like Autumn best
*Love pasta
*Voted for Russell to win on Survivor, twice
*Like to hike

Now to pick 15 (er 18) bloggers!

*Confessions of Dagwood Dog
*The Tales of Stupidman
*The Tales of Granny
*Japan- It's A Wonderful Rife
*Diary of a Sex Diva
*OTD
*A College Girl's Days
*A Spiritual Checkpoint
*Travel Along For The Journey
*On Being A Witch
*The Mennobrarian
*The Natural Catholic
*The Postulations of an Iconoclast
*Wouldn't You Like To See Something Strange
*Omar and Zaina Binladin
*Confessions of a Pagan Soccer Mom
*Oddball Angel
*Suddenly Mommy
and of course to: Ramblings of a Domestic Goddess

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Douglas Adams Quote

Happy Wednesday!

Time for another great quote:

Protect me from knowing what I don't need to know. Protect me from even knowing there are things to know that I don't know. Protect me from knowing that I decided not to know about the things that I decided not to know about. Amen. Lord, lord, lord. Protect me from the consequences of the above prayer. Amen.-Douglas Adams

Be sure to check back Saturday- YMR will give the run down of some future posts!
Til then-take care!